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merlyn_4401 ([personal profile] merlyn_4401) wrote2015-01-30 10:33 am
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Friends Only

I've had to go friends only. Sorry to everyone who visited from off-LJ, but it was necessary to keep the kind of environment my friends and I enjoy.

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communities

[identity profile] hilitesmmz.livejournal.com 2007-07-23 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
could you suggest a community where I might find help with my husbands affair? I tried typing in all the trigger words nothing came up. I guess marriedlife isn't the right venue. I need help
thanx

Re: communities

[identity profile] merlyn4401.livejournal.com 2007-07-23 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
OK, I'm going to be very honest with you here. LJ is NOT going to help you with your husband's affair. Counseling will. Your church will. Your friends will. Your family will. Coming online and having a pissing contest with the woman your husband cheated with isn't going to help a thing.

[livejournal.com profile] _marriedlife_ is a good place to find resources, advice, and ask questions. It is NOT a support group for adultery, nor is it a place to hash out all your feelings about this. That is what your personal LJ and your flist is for.

Everything everyone said about getting away from that woman is exactly right. You are never ever going to move on if you keep deliberately rubbing salt in your own wounds.
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