Real person shipping freaks me out, too. There was some hard-core Val/Melissa shipping on Dancing With The Stars last season and it was just too weird for words. It's so invasive and....presumptive, I guess? Plus, wrt SPN actors, it's just as gross to try to force straight people into a same sex relationship as it is to force homosexual people into a straight relationship. Just...UGH.

I would love to get together! Just let me know your schedule. :D