OK, I'm going to be very honest with you here. LJ is NOT going to help you with your husband's affair. Counseling will. Your church will. Your friends will. Your family will. Coming online and having a pissing contest with the woman your husband cheated with isn't going to help a thing.

_marriedlife_ is a good place to find resources, advice, and ask questions. It is NOT a support group for adultery, nor is it a place to hash out all your feelings about this. That is what your personal LJ and your flist is for.

Everything everyone said about getting away from that woman is exactly right. You are never ever going to move on if you keep deliberately rubbing salt in your own wounds.